Friday, July 23, 2010

The Courage to Emerge with Tess Marshall of The Bold Life


Tess Marshall's blog, The Bold Life is full of passion, joy and wisdom--just like Tess! Tess is a gifted writer, coach and public speaker. I know you will feel much bolder and ready to take on the world when you read this empowering article. A big thank you for my new friend Tess for sharing her gifts with the world and for being a guest on my blog!


“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.” –Anais Nin

Do you have a dream that is big, scary and seems impossible? You may even feel the world is against you and everyone else gets the breaks. Don’t allow your dreams to fade away or die out of fear. Don’t take your talent to your grave.

I believe you have what it takes and I think you’re amazing, and what I think …you’re a million times more! I believe in our awesome universe anything can happen, any place, any time, when you show up and participate in life.

What to do when you fear your possible dream:

“Smile, breathe and go slowly.” Thich Nhat Hanh

Live a moment-to-moment life. Nothing is impossible to believe or accomplish one moment at a time. In the present moment fear fades away leaving room for faith to flourish.

In this moment your gifts and talents are unfolding. Listen as your heart is stirred by joyful whispers only you can follow. When you hear your dream calling, fling the door open and invite your future inside.

“The time has come to turn your heart into a temple of fire. Your essence is gold hidden in dust. To reveals its splendor you need to burn in the fire of love.” – Rumi

Choose to feel radiantly alive. Breathe into what challenges you. Breathe from you solar plexus and know that the universe is conspiring to bring you all that you need to grow into your dream. Trust the dream in your heart.

“You, yourself, are the arbiter of your own destingy.” Emma C. Hopkins

Choose health. Make healthy choices including daily doses of fruits, vegetables and exercise. When you choose to awaken every cell in your body, your energy vibrates on the frequency of miracles.

“Whatever we do lays a seed in our deepest consciousness, and one day that seed will grow.” – Sakyoung Mipham

Create something new every day. Write the next chapter in your book, dance, cook, garden, design or decorate. Your creativity fans the Divine spark that connects to the right people, places and things. Seek a connection to someone who can and will take you to the next level.

“Faith in yourself will make despair disappear.” –Frank Tyger

Have faith in yourself and in your path. Act on Divine inspiration. Go with the flow. Live from the place that the world is better because you are here. Be contagious, radiate energy that makes others want what you have. Consciously create your world. Color it bright, outline it in bold!

“I still get wildly enthusiastic about little things…I play with leaves. I skip down the street and run against the wind.” –Leo F. Buscalia

Partake in the Sacred Yes Factor. Be spontaneous! Don’t over think things. Your ego wants predictability. It’s what drives you to watch the same television show, eat the same food for breakfast and take the same route to work. Your soul wants spontaneity. Take a risk, dare to look foolish or silly. Say yes to life, work, play and new beginnings. Learn to love and invite curiosity, fun and even change into your life.

“People have a hard time letting go of their suffering. Out of a fear of the unknown, they prefer suffering that is familiar.” – Thich Nhat Hanh

Stretch beyond your normal boundaries. Do the unthinkable, believe in the unimaginable, and go against the crowd and common view. Trust. Surrender. Be free. Connect with the awe inspiring majesty and rhythm of life.

“Blaze with the fire that is never extinguished.” Luisa Sigea

Be passionate. French philosopher and author of The Poetics of Space, Gaston Bachelard, states that three factors are required for living a life of spontaneity and passion: intensity, intimacy, and immensity. Be animated, inspired, enlightened and illuminated by music, books, nature, children and art. Allow your life to be an expression of joy. Allow life to sweep you along the path others fear to go.

“Be still when you have nothing to say; when genuine passion moves you, say what you've got to say, and say it hot.” D. H. Lawrence

Get out there and makes some noise. I recently decided to reignite my professional speaking career after a three year hiatus. I found a great coach and asked him to hold me accountable. I joined Toastmasters to be with like minded people. I put a speaking page on my blog. My first gig is coming up next month. When I committed, my dream reached out and took me by the hand.

“There are only two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle.” — Albert Einstein

Stand in gratitude with a strong appreciation of yourself. Radiate your brilliance, intuition and some kind of wonderful. Be swept away by your own genius. You have the Divine in your DNA. You are here to play a part in creating a world that blesses everyone and profits all.

Do you feel drawn to something? What is one thing you could do that would make the biggest difference in your life?


Tess Marshall is the mover and shaker, at www.TheBoldLife.com, where she’ll hold you accountable for being the boldest you’ve ever been in every area of your life! What would you do if you were 10 times bolder? You can sign up for her RSS feed and receive her updates or follow her on Twitter
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10 comments:

  1. Fabulous interview! I am a big believer in not over thinking! Sometimes you have to think quickly and just go for it...over thinking can only cause doubt. I love the quotes here too! Congrats on the speaking engagement!!

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  2. Hi Caroline,
    My friend who loves change reveals secret! Isn't it true we always over think and stay fearful and stuck. Thanks for coming over. I appreciate you. I've had so many compliments on my photo and header I hope your getting some calls! Talk soon...

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  3. Tess,what a powerful post. Loved all the quotes and your words with them. Its hard for me to find in the way in which to help others. But I am determined to live ,every moment well. To give in this moment. Thank you for being an inspiration :-)

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  4. This is a high energy article Tess. The greatest quotes don't mean a thing unless we ask ourselves; "what does this have to do with me?" It is the small actions we take everyday that lead to huge breakthroughs.

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  5. Tess, This is such a rich post! There's so much here. I was an avid Anais Nin reader as a teen and love see her wonderful quote at the start. I especially like the advice from Thich Nhat Hanh and your encouragement to be in the moment.

    Brenda, what a beautiful spot you have here!

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  6. "you're a million times more" I just loved that line....and "go slowly, step by step"...yes when I am driving too fast I can have an accident.

    Exercise and eat healthy foods - love yourself with true love not fabricated stuff

    so much of value here Tess - many thanks for putting the remarkable piece together...
    PS
    Your words on my daughter's birthday card were so well received and Library Girl had her first career interview today for a job....as a school Librarian...fingers crossed and eyes heavenward...she said she read her card again right before the phone call interview and she did not stutter at all...YES !

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  7. Tess,
    You just keep getting better and better. I love the wealth of wisdom that you shared in this post!

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  8. This is wonderful, Tess! I enjoyed this immensely! Congrats on your speaking engagement upcoming..

    I really love these quotes and what you shared here especially:

    “The time has come to turn your heart into a temple of fire. Your essence is gold hidden in dust. To reveals its splendor you need to burn in the fire of love.” – Rumi

    Choose to feel radiantly alive. Breathe into what challenges you.

    Choose health. Make healthy choices,,,to awaken every cell in your body, your energy vibrates on the frequency of miracles.

    Stretch beyond your normal boundaries. ..
    Be free. Connect with the awe inspiring majesty and rhythm of life.

    Allow your life to be an expression of joy. Allow life to sweep you along the path others fear to go.

    “Be still when you have nothing to say; when genuine passion moves you, say what you've got to say, and say it hot.” D. H. Lawrence

    so many golden nuggets here, thank-you, thank-you ;) and May God bless you.. with your expanding dreams also!

    xx
    Jenn

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  9. Hi Brenda and Tess, I love this post and the advice you've given. And it's brilliant that you've started public speaking again. I loved watching your video the other day - you have a great talent for it.

    Since I came back to blogging after a long break, I'm finding myself drawn to people and blog posts that speak to me and help me move towards my goals.

    And I'm finally about to start the type of business that I've wanted to start for years.

    The health thing is something I really need to work on. I've slipped into bad diet habits over the last few months.

    Today I must have read at least half a dozen posts warning of the dangers of eating unhealthily. And I'm taking it as a sign to do something about it.

    Cath Lawson

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  10. Brenda -- Brenda it's nice to visit your site and thanks for having Tess write a guest post.

    Tess -- As usual, this post is very motivating. You have such a talent for giving the little push that leads to the big "leap of faith." I also loved how you used quotes to emphasize your points -- it was a good mix!

    I am in a moment of contentment. I have finally managed to combine two of my passions -- photography and writing. In addition, I am willing to play and try new things with my writing...something I didn't do when I first started blogging. I owe this "contentment to my blogging friends, like you, who remind me to stretch myself and go after what I want.

    I was reading the comment by Cath Lawson and I laughed because that's happened to me many times. I will be struggling with something and we I go visiting, I find that the posts I visit seem to help me with whatever the issue is. It's one of many amazing things about blogging:~)

    Sara Healy

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